I don’t want to be the person who says, “I hate my neighbor.
It’s not like we’re talking about a random person who we don’t know. It’s someone we know, someone who we know is a jerk, who we know is a jerk. We’ve all probably made that person a friend.
I think the best way to put the haters is to show that your friends are not all jerks.
A good way to get a friend to start going after his own friends (which is what my attitude is going to start with) is to show him that your friends do not all have your best interests at heart. I once had a friend who was very good at keeping his friends in line, but he wasn’t so good about keeping himself in line.
One of the most important things about the internet is that it’s a place where you can say or do anything you want. The best part about it being a place like that is that it makes it so hard to stop doing something you shouldn’t. I mean, you can hide your hatred for a person from your friends, but if you’re going to tell them, “You’re the one that I hate, so let’s hide it from you.
The internet is where you can say or do anything you want. The problem is that most of us often say or do things that we shouldnt. For example, I used to think if I said, “I think you should get a job, because I think youre not good at what youre doing”, that people would get mad at me. Now I know better; it would take a lot less time and effort to tell them that I hate the way you do it.
You and I know that it is extremely difficult to tell others how we feel. Many of us have to get out of the comfort zone and into the real world to make us feel better about ourselves. We have to face and voice our feelings, and then try to keep our feelings in check.
I think a lot of people can get really defensive when they are told how they feel about something, and we all get defensive about things. But I think this is one thing that is really hard to get past – is this a good thing for you? Not everyone has a positive outlook on everything. I think the best thing that you can do is to start by understanding that your feelings are normal.
I have a friend who is very defensive about her feelings, and then after a few minutes of being told to just sit down and say it, she starts telling me how much she’s unhappy with herself. And I think that’s a really good thing. We don’t have to beat ourselves up, we can just stop. And if we are not happy, that’s a sign that we can do something about it.
We have to put ourselves first, but the point of this advice is to just stop being so defensive of ourselves. What you are doing is being defensive of your feelings, and that isn’t healthy. Feeling guilty is not a good thing, and it can also be toxic. So if it takes you awhile to understand that you can just stop being so defensive, you will probably be making progress.